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I gave up smoking and I hate everyone

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Created by oliver > 9 months ago, 20 Mar 2011
oliver
3952 posts
20 Mar 2011 8:08PM
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I stopped last week and every day I wake up feeling pissed off, I hate everyone, except our new puppy.

How long will this last?

Ted the Kiwi
NSW, 14256 posts
20 Mar 2011 11:13PM
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that may explain a lot...........

best of luck on yr mission - 3 weeks should cover you well. The first week will be the worst by some distance. What method you using?

Good luck!!!!

poor relative
WA, 9106 posts
20 Mar 2011 8:15PM
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Masturbate more.
It helps.

theDoctor
NSW, 5786 posts
20 Mar 2011 11:22PM
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rellie is right, I no longer smoke and I have been able to cut down on the masturbation to six times a day...

that may sound a lot but the last one takes me well over two hours to rub out ....

good luck ollie, I reckon you will make it....

you seem like a natural born wanker

oliver
3952 posts
20 Mar 2011 8:32PM
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This time I'm on nicobate 2mg captuals. I didn't smoke too much - maybe 5 a day, but I'd rip off the filters. I've given up lots of times before, once I gave up for two years. The casuals do help with the cravings - never used them before. However, when I wake up I hate everyone and everything. Lately I have this really strong and unhealthy urge to tell my boss to go suck my dick.

I took a couple of sickies, cause I realized my thoughts were unhealthy and detrimental.

mineral1
WA, 4564 posts
20 Mar 2011 8:36PM
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Hang in the oliver, it gets better. No matter what, it gets better (was a 1.5 pack a day smoker until my 40's)
Couple of things to avoid, dont hang about with your mates when they stop for a smoke, particularly when having a beer or two. Tough but its easing the pain by keeping away for a while.
If you crack, then start again directly.
Couple of things you will do is look for the smokes, like patting your pocket. That will fade.
You will ask those around you all about strange fresh smells, that's cos the system isn't clogged up.

Don't listen to theDoctor, he sounds like he has given them away as well, and slamming all over forums

log man
VIC, 8289 posts
20 Mar 2011 11:43PM
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It gets better Oliver, stick with it.

theDoctor
NSW, 5786 posts
21 Mar 2011 12:09AM
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mineral1 said...

Don't listen to theDoctor, he sounds like he has given them away as well, and slamming all over forums


yeah dude don't listen to me, good luck stick with it, won't be long before you're free and feeling 1000% better for it

jedda
WA, 110 posts
20 Mar 2011 10:45PM
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Suggest that you always class yourself as a smoker and feel the power of your self-control about not having one. I was a three packet-a-day smoker and have been "on the wagon" for 25 years. My last one really made my head "spin". Just shows the c#@p in those things.

Best part is that you can laugh and not end up coughing.

Stick with it; it will be your best move ever.

Keep loving your puppy.

king of the point
WA, 1836 posts
20 Mar 2011 11:07PM
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3 things you should never have to give up ?
Good luck

pi22api22a
WA, 150 posts
20 Mar 2011 11:23PM
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Just do it, dont be a pussy.. I can tell you first hand its a painful and revoulting way to die,, they said she had 50% chance of living 5yrs,, dead in 3 months

Gorgo
VIC, 5127 posts
21 Mar 2011 7:57AM
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oliver said...
... Lately I have this really strong and unhealthy urge to tell my boss to go suck my dick.

...


If you look back through your old posts you will find that you have always had a strong urge to tell your boss to suck your dick (not in the friendly I'll-suck-yours-if-you-suck-mine way). This is normal.

Embrace your anger. Focus it on the cigarettes that are the cause of your pain. Use the force Oliver.

poor relative
WA, 9106 posts
21 Mar 2011 8:04AM
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Take up exercise something that will remind you that you need your lungs.

So running, cycling etc. Not only will it make you curse the day you started smoking and hopefully stop you from relapsing it will get those endorphines going and make you feel chipper.

Start slow work your way up

Good luck

Mobydisc
NSW, 9029 posts
21 Mar 2011 11:17AM
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I was never a heavy smoker but for a few years I used to smoke cigarettes regularly. No real help about giving up besides eating something like an orange whenever you have the desire to have a smoke. It gives your hands something to do and the taste while not satisfying the desire for a cigarette, gives your mind something else to think about.





ka43
NSW, 3105 posts
21 Mar 2011 1:38PM
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Dont drink alcohol when you are giving up, especially beer or wine!!

When I quit years ago I didnt have a drink for a month. I was super cranky which my work mates and family will swear to but this eases after a couple of weeks.
Exercise but dont eat to take your mind off the ciggies.
Your biggest determining factor will be that you WANT to give up, not "aw bugger, Ill just try for awhile and see how I go". You will fail with this mindset.
after days the crap is nearly all out of your system, you just have to do the MIND thing, WILLPOWER is it!!!!!!!!

Best of luck, best thing you will ever do!!!

NasiGoreng
VIC, 260 posts
21 Mar 2011 1:46PM
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change your habits.

different break times,
different lunch times.
regular time outs.

your body will adjust

pweedas
WA, 4642 posts
21 Mar 2011 10:59AM
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theDoctor said...


rellie is right, I no longer smoke and I have been able to cut down on the masturbation to six times a day...

that may sound a lot but the last one takes me well over two hours to rub out ....



Yes Doc, we've noticed. But why do you have to do it on the forums.?

Although I can't see any of your posts which would have taken "two hours to rub out". [}:)]

Test pilot 1
WA, 1430 posts
21 Mar 2011 11:37AM
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I was a 60 a day smoker. Quit cold turkey.
When you 'want' that smoke, pour yourself a drink of water - replaces the act of getting out and lighting a cigarette, sip it slowly - replaces the act of sucking that foul muck into your lungs and is doing you good by hydrating you.
What ever your method keep at it as it is the mental attitude which will enable you to succeed.
The first week was the hardest for me until I changed the cigarette smoking habit for a water drinking habit.

Gorgo
VIC, 5127 posts
21 Mar 2011 3:09PM
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The tips above sound pretty good.

The best one I have heard is that you don't say "I'm giving up smoking." You say "I have given up smoking."

You call yourself a non-smoker or an ex-smoker or whatever you want.

The point is, if you say you're giving up and crack and have a smoke then you tell yourself that you have failed and you are now a smoker again and you're back to a pack a day.

If you say you're a non-smoker then that one cigarette is an aberration and you can get over it and continue on trying to not smoke.

The other thing is to channel your anger and hatred towards smoking and smokers. That's what the rest of us do. Repeat after me, "Smokers are littering, foul smelling, inconsiderate, pox-ridden criminals." Doesn't that feel better.

shear tip
NSW, 1125 posts
21 Mar 2011 3:35PM
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ka43 said...
Dont drink alcohol when you are giving up, especially beer or wine!!


Hell, I started drinking when I quit smoking. 50 cigs per day, replaced now with beers.



Best of luck, best thing you will ever do!!!


Ditto!

Hiko
1229 posts
21 Mar 2011 12:53PM
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I gave it up decades ago probably the hardest thing I ever did
It was a total shock to me to realise how addicted I was to the things
I cracked quite a few times but the important thing I think is not let it stop you carrying on giving it up Some times toward the end I would take a couple of puffs when it got too much for me and then throw it away now the smell of one just about makes me puke Good luck with it its worth it

lotofwind
NSW, 6451 posts
21 Mar 2011 6:49PM
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Hey oliver,I just stopped too, 4 days now.
If you dont hate everyone enough,,,I wil help if you like.[}:)][}:)][}:)][}:)][}:)]

My heads all fuzzy,cant think or concentrate.
For me the key is to keep busy,soon as I sit down and do nothing I start to crave.
My house has never been so clean,yard mowed to perfection, hell I even gave the shed a clean out and sorted the bucket of screws into sizes and type.

The biggest thing I have noticed is I can smell things,,I didnt realise I couldnt before.

thommo 000
1670 posts
21 Mar 2011 4:00PM
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ka43 said...

you just have to do the MIND thing, WILLPOWER wontpower is it!!!!!!!!


Wanga F One
QLD, 231 posts
21 Mar 2011 6:19PM
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Run,run till you feel sick and your lungs hurt,keep running till your fit and the cigs will simply repulse you.(the chest pain bit may not be sound medical advice).

arkgee
NSW, 639 posts
21 Mar 2011 8:49PM
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nicotine is a scary addiction....I gave up smoking 35 years ago and I could lite up a bunger right now...I gave it up mentally because I thought it impossible to give it up physically....keep telling yourself you have more intelligence than to smoke...and after awhile you will feel like an idiot if you lite up...it's a mind set...physically your hooked for life, but if you get on top of it mentally, one day you will just forget that you were a smoker...takes a long time but it's well worth it...good luck...you will need it.

Mecky
NSW, 56 posts
21 Mar 2011 9:58PM
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lotofwind said...

Hey oliver,I just stopped too, 4 days now.
If you dont hate everyone enough,,,I wil help if you like.[}:)][}:)][}:)][}:)][}:)]

My heads all fuzzy,cant think or concentrate.
For me the key is to keep busy,soon as I sit down and do nothing I start to crave.
My house has never been so clean,yard mowed to perfection, hell I even gave the shed a clean out and sorted the bucket of screws into sizes and type.

The biggest thing I have noticed is I can smell things,,I didnt realise I couldnt before.


same here, quit 9 days ago.

I did not leave the house for a week.

But now it's getting better - I can leave the house and drive a car without buying ciggis at the first stop or asking strange people if they could sell/spare me one

And yes, it's all a question of willpower/motivation - and patches help too.


nebbian
WA, 6277 posts
21 Mar 2011 7:59PM
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lotofwind said...

sorted the bucket of screws into sizes and type.



Now that is just mind boggling!

Gave up smoking years ago but still addicted to the nicotine gum. Swings and roundabouts.

hamburglar
ACT, 2174 posts
21 Mar 2011 11:34PM
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Test pilot 1 said...

I was a 60 a day smoker. Quit cold turkey.
When you 'want' that smoke, pour yourself a drink of water - replaces the act of getting out and lighting a cigarette, sip it slowly - replaces the act of sucking that foul muck into your lungs and is doing you good by hydrating you.
What ever your method keep at it as it is the mental attitude which will enable you to succeed.
The first week was the hardest for me until I changed the cigarette smoking habit for a water drinking habit.


holy crap 60 glasses a day you must be pissing a bucket an hour

Test pilot 1
WA, 1430 posts
22 Mar 2011 12:07AM
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Who said anything about 60 GLASSES!
Any way with a hose as big as mine it takes a while to drain

zippyblue
NSW, 111 posts
22 Mar 2011 10:03AM
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How dumb do u hav to be to START smoking when ur the wrong side of 30.

Most of my mates are in their early 20s and smoke like chimneys.

I gave in to peer pressure on holiday a few weeks ago.

Smoking makes me feel happier, more chatty with people, more relaxed, I can drive when going out, no hangovers. Even work is more tolerable.

Is it really worse than drinking socially?

I know it's really bad and at the point where I can choose to stop.....

DavMen
NSW, 1510 posts
22 Mar 2011 10:23AM
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arkgee said...

nicotine is a scary addiction....I gave up smoking 35 years ago and I could lite up a bunger right now...I gave it up mentally because I thought it impossible to give it up physically....keep telling yourself you have more intelligence than to smoke...and after awhile you will feel like an idiot if you lite up...it's a mind set...physically your hooked for life, but if you get on top of it mentally, one day you will just forget that you were a smoker...takes a long time but it's well worth it...good luck...you will need it.


Totally agree - and its soooo easy to start up again - it's like being an alcoholic (not that i am).

I always consider myself as a smoker who is not currently smoking.

I had given up for 25years and then I thought I could have one! smoked again for 4 years, very lightly but still smoked. seemed even harder to give up for a second time.

Been almost a year now and I still crave almost daily, but the cravings do get shorter in duration.



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