build a bridge ....and i think i saw your dog with a couple of other dogs ass sniffing on the streets and pole pissing ,,,,,if you think it hurts now wait till child support start flooding you with bills and late fees.... thats when it kills cause your new kite is now on hold ,,,
good news dog returned... bad news missus is coming around to pick up all her stuff today and most likely take all the furniture, still better than things getting ugly end of the day its just stuff.. i can always replace stuff cant replace the lil man
First 2 weeks the worst
Keep it friendly no mater what
R.S.V.P .com enjoy the experience !
ask her if you can pay child support to her privatly or it will be the biggest head ache if she goes through the goverment ...see the old saying if you love something then set it free if it loves you it will come back only this time it was a dog
Do it privately!!! what a twat!....she'll take the money and in 3 years time say she never got a red cent!
don't listen to any bastard on here mate! especially that last one..
^^^ When you are able, talk to Child Support Australia (CSA) and get an understanding of the rules.
It IS possible to pay privately and still avoid the risk of BS claims later down the track.
If you want, PM me and I am happy to give you a heads up on some of the pitfalls to avoid.
thats why you pay it to her account and keep the reciepts its not rocket science like kite surfing is wait till you do your tax and then they say you you earnt more than you declared and your tax return that was going to your new kite but now its on its way to her anyway so when i say do it privatly its from years of letter after letter from CSA and recaculations on your income there left foot cant follow there right foot a differant case manager every time you ring there number is 131272 press 3 if you have an acccount enter your 12 digit account number then press hash this will help them seperate yo to a differant person each time you call make sure you notify them of any changes withing 14 day or you will encure a late fee for not tellling them of your change and they will take there late fees first before they give money to your child just like a bank intrest first there pocket before the childs mouth so do as stabber says dont listen to the twat, what do i know nothing but you will hate all those letters
My appologies...It seems I am the twat in this case!
Maybe I shouldn't comment when I have not had that experience....again ...SOZ!
just worked out the payments.. its not as bad as i thought.. i thought it was straight 18% but its not i used the calculator.. i earn around 55k p.a and i pay around $5400 per year. if the ex.. god thats new to say.. if shes happy with it probably will go privatly till something goes wrong i guess... but im paying her via bank transfer so its all recordable so im covered i hope.. i will call them to make sure.
Why am i responding to this ? - waiting for the wind !
I don't think many have the "perfect" life, but these things make life new and interesting.
Just pickup the pieces, and your kite, cry on someone's shoulder (like you are), then stand up tall and move on !
you may very well find that "near" perfect life
don't forget your alias/motto - "H2OFLY!"
I was a counsellor, ONCE !
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Write a song about your situation, (country music background tune) Then play it backwards, You'll get your Dog, wife and child back!
Play it cool son,,Ya a bit livley on the CSA stuff that will work it self out in time, and wont be to bad for you on 55k and 1 child.Emotions run high on relationship breakdowns especally when kids are involved,but once you have sorted out your days with the kid on a regular basis things will fall in to place. I dont know your circumstances,whether you are right or wrong but at the end of the day,the kid has to come first,avoid all confontations in front of him.Its not easy to be a passionate waterman and maintain a relationship,its very hard to understand.
Sometimes when I get lonely I cook myself a bacon explosion. Got the idea from "this is why you're fat .com"
You get bacon flavoured coke in the USA. Perfect for drinking with your bacon explosion
Tough gig.
Keep it as cool as poss. Sounds like you are wisely not attached to the consumables (smart) and more concerned with the kiddy (very smart).
Ignore some of the selfish tossers on this thread.
Hang in there and get on the water as much as possible.
Don't let the bad times creep up on ya.
Good luck.
cheers guys, shes being pretty good about it..actually didnt take as much stuff as i thought and really doesnt seem to want to restrict me seeing jax at all. I really hope this lasts.
good stuff brother
as i said s**t always gets better and we still got bout 5 months of some of the sickest conditions on this planet for a our beloved sport on da way!!!!!!!!!!!!something im just learning is to be in the moment and enjoy the little victorys as much as you can
hey i was born in texas giv me a breakif you didnt like the foto chek the crap i get now.mums aussie.try not to hold it against me[}:)]
also like to hold a fishing rod at times,bet your one of those dont hurt the "sea kitten"[}:)] types(check the PETA website re that).id rather get food myself than buy the crap on those poly trays YOU prob buy at the market
this for another thread or site really.but i hunt for the future not the freezer,by the way.am leavin the communications game to study marine science next year.....
lol unluckey but now u dont have to waist money on them any more so with all the leftover money go on a kite trip around australia
