Or you can just convince your other half that she needs to resume horse riding and to do this she needs to buy a house & piece of land down by the coast.
Its worked for me 
I'm just home from a kite at Dixon Park beach, and I want to let you all in on a little secret.
I was out for about an hour with a few other guys, Mr Float being one of them.
Stopped on the beach to talk to Float when he asked me the time, bout 12.45 Float,
to which he replied.......
wait for it.....
"Hey do you want to try my new kite because im going to watch some NETBALL for about an hour" (I think he was playing in a woman's comp)
Now how good is the guy, kites when ever he wants, leaves when ever he is told, comes back to the beach all sweaty from netball and grabs his kite back of me, jumps back on his board and kites of into the sun set with a blissful smile on his face (oh sorry we are on the east coast) kites back out into the dark sky's of the southerly storm front.
And all this time most of you guys take him seriously 
Hey it works the other way too... i kite and surf my time away,and would be happy to meet a guy who is as keen as me, instead of hassling me for not spending enough time with them.......no kids (have them in my life, friends and ex's and dig them..keahi being one of them for about 6 years, he's a gem)...own my house/car .....I got my priorities right from an early age and didn't want to conform to the usual journey people take..free as a bird...it's a great feeling.
yeah, I spend equal amounts of time in the water and the water based lubricants myself...
^^^^^^way too much info ya sick puppy
Maybe try eharmony, I think you need to,maybe???
If you do try eharmony,,,
I would seriously think of putting a different pic of yourself, to the pic you have on here of you as your avatar.
Unless your after Lesley WinkelLOL
"and this one time,,,at band camp,,,"
. Still got heaps of years to kite but
No one forced these guys to commit,have kids and mortgage so if they don't get the time to do what they want to do then the only person they can blame is themselves.
just as the saying reads,you reap what you sow.
Married,single or in between we all need life balance or else we end up grumpy old men/ women...everybody should be able to enjoy their passions within a healthy compromise for all parties ,so when you are doing it you don't feel guilty about it ...and if your kids grow up in this sort of environment it makes for a happier society in all ways.
Whoah.....that's deep.....
I thought it was 'whoever has the most toys , wins!'
Damn, life does have a meaning......doh!!
